Pretty heavy stuff...

After reading all the new blogs, I realize that we are all staying focused on the task at hand "Getting Healthy".
Lorna it must be very hard for you with this new bit of news, now is the time for you to shine! And shine you will, brighter than ever before, you can be so proud of all the strides you have made to move on to a better place for yourself. You are the captain of your own destiny, learning to truly understand Lorna. That is the best gift you can give yourself right now, giving yourself alone time to heal!
I am so grateful to learn more about all of you.
Dear Janine your measurements are awesome, impressive in fact, you can be so proud of working so hard to get to this point and helping the rest of us start our trip and learn about raw vegan.
As far as your 3 choices, both Al and I agree #3 because you have already tried some of the other 2. I really do feel you need a place to call home! A place you can dress up and call your own. Holidays end and are very pricey for a temporary memory, sometimes not even shared with a true love.
I am lucky because I had my children to share many of my favorite holidays with, and later the best with my dear Al. I feel fulfilled .
I believe in goals! If I were 28 again and single and had a good job, I would get myself an apartment and save my holiday time and money and reward myself with a long holiday for my 30th birthday. Perhaps you could accumulate benefits and holiday time if you are fulltime at wherever you work. These are the benefits we get for being committed to company.
There I go preaching again , sorry, real life does expect us to make sacrifices like working hours which are not condusive to raising a family, missing precious moments with your children, never to be replaced.
So we focus on all the good ones, the funny ones and the ones worthy of remembering. These are the ones that make us realize that life wasn't all bad there was alot of good stuff happening too!
All of you on this blog can attest that we've had some pretty nice moments lately, let's all move forward! The best is yet to come!
You're all great!
Love Birgie